Blond Ambition – Part II

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The Good
I love that blonde hair makes me feel more put together.
There is something about blonde hair on me that makes me feel like I look put together. I think it’s the unnaturalness of it. Blond hair equals I obviously care about how I look; I go to the salon. Where brown hair is more I’m a mom and don’t have time to think about how I look.

I can wear less make up with blonde hair.
Specifically in the eyebrow region. I was not gifted with thick eyebrows (Scornful look to my lovely younger sister with dark thick beautiful brows). Mine are sparse and lighter in color which looks more natural with blonde hair. I’m a blush, brows and lashes girl so this is huge. (One day I hope to graduate into a statement lip girl)

The Bad
Very short very blonde hair is a very specific look and that look can over take you.
When all anyone sees is your hair that’s a bad thing. (Also being compared to Miley Cyrus not so much fun. How about Kate Lanphear or Michelle Williams people!)

Your hair becomes the ultimate accessory that is your signature piece.
Very blonde and very short are two very distinct things and together it starts to add up. See above. Even if my hair were long the blondness would still be distinct.  This distinctness acts like an accessory that you are always wearing.

It looks like I am trying too hard.
This is the flip side of looking put together. Take it two steps further and you fall into a sterotype. My style is minimal with bold and edgy accents, but I want to steer clear of punk, and nothing says punk like a bleached asymmetrical hair style, think Agyness Deyn or Miley Cyrus.

I am no longer blonde. In the end I wanted to grow out my hair more than I wanted to be a blonde and maintaining that color resulted in a lot of damage.

** Notice that Miley Cyrus and Kate Lanphear’s hairstyles aren’t that different but their styles are and I personally much prefer Kate.

 

 

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The Blunt Cut

The Blunt Cut

I have a love hate relationship with my hair (i.e. Blonde Ambition). The problem is I like it in extremes: platinum or black (I also have a love of vibrant coppery red hair); a pixie with shaved sides or a shoulder length blunt cut. I am ok with that, being bold is a big part of my style. I would describe my ideal style as Artistic Minimalism. It’s bold and edgy but simple. The problem, however, is that changing your hair takes time. Right now my hair is a bold and edgy undercut, so I’m longing more for the simple but still a bit bold blunt cut. Even a very simple bob is appealing right now.  Into the Gloss has a whole article about the blunt cut but I found this bit to be so true.

Via Into The Gloss
Or the “non-haircut,” as hairstylist Joey Silvestra at Blackstones describes it. By slicing a bit off the bottom and letting your layers grow out to a single, uniform length, you’ll feel like you’re doing something new. Today, you see a lot of girls with very unique look-at-my-hair hairdos that become a style focal point. Well, this is the opposite of that.

That’s what I’m looking for, a hairstyle that isn’t quite so look at me. So here’s to growing out my hair. Wish me luck and maybe next year I will have a blunt cut to show for it.

Blonde Ambition

Blonde Ambition
I have a love hate relationship with blonde hair.  When done right is it beautiful, but there are so many blondes gone wrong that even when yours is right it can make you worry.  I find this to especially to true since my 13 month old, Vivienne, has the exact shade I am trying to achieve.  The one that I also had as a child, that oh so allusive childhood blonde.  When I have blonde hair I worry it’s to yellow or too gray.  I also worry that it looks fake.  My DIY blonde is more platinum than beige so I’m thinking a salon visit is in my future.

Sweet Dream Nursery – Boy

Sweet Dream Nursery - Boy
I couldn’t use the original art work and rug for inspiration on this one because of how heavily they used pink.  I did keep a multicolored tribal rug with animal art for a similar feel.

You can find the links to the Nursery Design Board Here.

Growing Up – The Sweet Dream Nursery

Growing Up - The Sweet Dream Nursery

You can find the links to the Nursery Design Board Here.

Nursery Design Board

Nursery Design Board

I fell in love with the colors in this rug from Anthropologie and soon after found the Sweet Dream print from Sandra Dieckmann.  I knew they were a perfect pair for one another.  We recently moved Vivienne into her own room and now the decor is a bit lacking, this is the direction I would like to take with it.  I also feel like this could transition nicely into a big girl room for when the girls are sleeping a bit more soundly and can share a room again.